Behind Closed Doors

Have you ever thought to yourself i wonder how this person is behind closed doors?. Well there was a saying in our house growing up "what happens behind closed doors stay behind closed" even as an adult i hear older women and men tell the younger women and men what goes on behind your doors leave it behind your doors. These saying have brought me to a conclusion you really never know someone unless your behind the door with them. Lets take a walk around the town in my mind and pull out some normal characters. As where walking we see the school teacher that is always fun loving and pays attention and shows true concern for your children is actually miserable, she goes home every night to an abusive husband and a bottle of liquor she wishes she could get out but if she does then people's opinions of her will change even though its not her fault so she makes the decision What ever happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors. We continue to walk and we come across a drug dealer, he must be the scum of the earth selling poison to people just to make money to show off, But then we follow him home and when we walk through the door we see something amazing this drug dealers mother is sick and so is his sister both need life saving surgeries his father has left and he nows has to take on the responsibility but he cant let people know he needs because he believes they will think of him as a weak man and he cant have that so he makes the decision What Goes On Behind Closed Doors, Stay Behind Closed Doors. We continue to walk and we see a judge a man of honor a man of integrity, respected by all a man that you would invite over for dinner but when he goes home he beats his wife and curses his own children but if his wife or children say anything they can lose there big home and comfy life so they make the decision WHAT Happens Behind Closed Doors Stay Behind Closed Doors. In understanding this idea of behind closed doors leads me to a thought. We people judge man by his appearance, how he or she acts in public, by the show they put on before you and by the good deeds that they do while your looking, this has caused us to invite people into our home's and life that could become a disaster. Now i understand why Yahweh says you Judge man by his outer appearance I judge man by his Heart. Yahweh dosnt judge people by the show they put on in public he judges them by What Happens Behind the closed doors of your heart. So i guess i broke that saying so ill make another one. " Be Mindful Of what you are behind closed doors because with Yahweh What Happens Behind Closed Doors will never stay there